Balancing Academics, Traveling, and Social Life While Abroad
I know, sounds crazy, right? But yes, you’re still studying abroad.
Now, maybe you’re a die-hard academic, the kind who color-codes notes and thrives on deadlines, awesome! Or maybe you’re the type who came to “study” abroad but plans on skipping a few classes here and there, also awesome! Or perhaps you’re simply trying to figure out how to actually balance both studying and living your best life while abroad, awesome x3!
If any of that sounds like you, you’re in the right place.
Type A: The Overachiever
You’re the student who’s always on top of everything: assignments, readings, extracurriculars. You’ve got goals: make your parents proud, secure that finance internship, keep the GPA pristine, and chase that sweet, sweet academic validation. All valid, and admirable, reasons.
But here’s the catch: that mindset will absolutely make you successful...academically. The question is, at what cost?
Studying abroad isn’t meant to be just another semester of grinding. It’s also about connecting with people, stepping outside your Notability app, and living a little.
“But why, Kashaf? It’s so much easier to just do what I’m already good at.”
Because you didn’t come all this way for an “easy semester.” You came to grow, to experience, to push your comfort zone, and that includes learning how to balance work and play.
So, here are three steps to help you strike that sweet spot between your academic and social life, whether you’re Type A, Type B, or somewhere in between.
- Schedule, Schedule, Schedule
This is your lifeline. Put everything in your Google Calendar, Outlook, or planner: classes, study blocks, group projects, exams, and even downtime. Seeing it all laid out helps reduce that anxious “When am I going to study?” feeling.
Trust me, there are enough hours in the day; you just have to allocate them intentionally. I personally track everything (yes, I’m chronically on Canvas and Moodle), but that structure keeps me sane.
Still struggling? Go to office hours. Professors abroad are just as approachable as the ones back home; they just can’t read minds. Talk to them early if you’re struggling or feeling overwhelmed. It’s been only two weeks into my Leonardo da Vinci Art History class, and chatting with my professor about coursework (and random Italian art facts) has already helped reduce my stress.
- Plan Your Trips in Advance
Spontaneity is fun until you’re scrambling to find a hotel the night before your flight. Take one or two hours each weekend to research destinations, rough budgets, sights, and events.
Don’t limit yourself to overhyped spots, consider hidden gems like Lake Bled (Slovenia), Malta, Montenegro, Croatia, Bosnia, or Chefchaouen (Morocco). They’re just as beautiful, often safer, and usually far more affordable.
Safety first, if you’re heading to a busier tourist city, spend a bit extra for a better neighborhood. And don’t underestimate hostels, they’re budget-friendly and great for meeting people.
Again, the goal here is to remove uncertainty. Once you’ve planned it out, put those trips right into your calendar.
- Surround Yourself with the Right People
Find friends who share your balance, people who value both adventure and ambition. It might take a few weeks to find your people, and that’s okay.
Resist the urge to stay in your comfort zone with the same small group the entire semester. Be open to new circles, new experiences, and yes, even a little awkwardness at first. You’ll be surprised how much you grow when you lean into those moments.
You don’t have to say yes to everything. You’re allowed to take your time, to explore at your own pace, to figure out what balance looks like for you.
Study abroad is about more than just grades or passport stamps, it’s about learning how to manage your time, your energy, and your relationships.
You’ve got this. I believe in you.
Now make memories and make your professors proud!
Kashaf Iftikhar
Hi, I’m Kashaf—a first-generation Pakistani-American. In my free time I enjoy spending time with my family and friends, shadowboxing, reading non-fiction novels, and volunteering. I can’t wait to share my journey in Milan, one cappuccino at a time!